I'm Tara Reed,
I help women save their marriages and keep their families intact, using a Christ-centered approach to healing codependency
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The Simple Approach Christian Women Are UsingÂ
To Save Their Troubled Marriages By Healing Codependency, And Changing Destructive Patterns.
Hi, I'm Tara Reed
Even though we haven't worked together yet, I bet I know a few things about you...
- You’re the woman who’s been fighting for your marriage—trying to love harder, communicate better, and hold everything together—while he seems content to stay the same. You’re exhausted from carrying all the emotional weight, wondering when someone else will finally meet you halfway. Â
- You feel a knot in your stomach when he walks through the door, but you can’t even explain why. You tell yourself not to overthink it, yet guilt and anxiety follow you around like shadows, making you question what you did wrong—again.
You’re Not Alone…. And There’s A Better Way!
- You feel grounded in yourself, so your sense of peace in your marriage is no longer dictated by his actions or moods. Instead, it flows from your own values, your faith, and the identity God has given you.
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You experience a steady, confident self that naturally eases tension and fosters connection with your children and within your family.
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You get to show up fully authentic —emotionally and spiritually—without fear, shame, or people-pleasing.
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You feel secure in your boundaries, holding them with grace and truth, creating safety for both you and your marriage.
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You now live from new life giving patterns in your marriage—no longer chasing, fixing, or rescuing—finally breaking generational cycles that used to hold your relationship back and keep you stuck.
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You get to love from wholeness, not neediness, which opens space for your spouse to meet you differently.
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You feel calm and present, even in conflict, setting a new standard for communication and understanding. You respond versus react.
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You experience your marriage beginning to shift—not because you control it, but because your presence changes the dynamic.
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You get to witness moments of connection, intimacy, and respect return, as the old patterns lose their power.
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You feel empowered, knowing that your transformation is the first step in changing generational cycles of pain and dysfunction.
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You experience the possibility of the marriage you always hoped for—one shaped by love, security, and a presence that invites real, lasting change.
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You Could Be On The Road To These Results Just A Few Months From Now.
How is This Possible ?
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Find Out In This Training, The Simple Approach Christian Women Are Using To Save Their Troubled Marriages By Healing Codependency, And Changing Destructive Patterns.
The Simple Approach Christian Women Are Using To Save Their Troubled Marriages By Healing Codependency, And Changing Destructive Patterns.
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- Gain Awareness: Go beyond the symptoms of what's wrong, to recognize the deeper dysfunction that's killing your marriage and your soul.
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Embark on a personal journey of your own transformation process which change the dysfunctional pattern that's at the root of your marriage problem (even if your husband isn't changing anything...yet)
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Create a behavioral shift in the marriage on your own from the transformation process that your husband will automatically follow.
Let me introduce
My Background
After reshaping my own story of codependency over the past decade—and walking alongside countless women and couples facing similar struggles—I began to notice something. The women who experience the deepest fulfillment in their relationships share one thing in common: a secure identity in Christ and the ability to live from the freedom He purchased on the cross.
They have learned to stop tying their sense of worth and peace to their husband’s actions or approval. Instead, they are grounded in their true identity in Christ, carrying a DEEP, unshakable confidence that their value and acceptance come from Him alone.They know that true freedom comes through Christ and the life He purchased for them on the cross—a freedom Jesus promised in John 8:36: “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
That freedom produces healthy cycles—completely opposite the destructive patterns they once lived under. They begin to understand a life-changing truth: their life belongs to God, it is precious in His sight (Psalm 139:14), and it’s meant to be lived freely in Him. From that place of rootedness, their marriages and families start to transform.
So many women spend endless hours chasing answers—listening to self-help voices, praying long, desperate prayers that feel unanswered, or consuming content that only validates their pain. Yet despite all their effort, nothing truly changes. They remain stuck.
Why? Because no one has helped them see what’s really happening beneath the surface. No one has given words to the dysfunction or revealed the invisible chains keeping them bound.
Until now.
